Another Daughter Lost: The Urgent, Inescapable Cycle We Ignore

She had been fourteen when she ran away. He had been nineteen, promising a life where love was enough. They married quietly in a temple, with no guests, no blessings, only hope.

Back in their village, the families turned them away. Shock. Anger. Shame. So they left.

Unmukt Foundation’s students representing the circle of life through a dance performance at Unmukt Utsav 2025.

The city offered them little. A slum room with cracked asbestos roofing. Rent of ₹2000 that they couldn’t afford. No money. No jobs. Just love to hold onto.

They tried. But without education or skills, every door closed. She had dropped out of school. So had he. They worked as daily laborers — cleaning, carrying, surviving meal by meal.

Then came a daughter. Small, fragile, perfect. They cried, holding her close. For a moment, love felt like enough. And in that moment, perhaps it was.

But survival turned heavy. Too heavy. He turned to alcohol. At first to forget. Then to escape. Nights turned cold. Then violent.  She was sixteen, still a child, but already a wife, a mother, and a survivor.

Then came another pregnancy. This time, he refused to believe the child was his. He didn’t look at the newborn. Didn’t hold him. And then he walked away.

Left her, his sixteen-year-old wife.
Left two babies.
Left behind every promise he had ever made.

She was alone now. No money. No support. Only whispers at her back:
“She deserved it.”
“It was bound to happen.”
“She asked for it.”

A man stepped forward, offering “help.” She didn’t ask what he meant. She had no space left for questions. She worked instead. Scrubbed floors. Served food. Lived in shadows. Her babies stayed with her parents, far away.

Six years passed. She was twenty-two when she finally brought them home. Her broken dreams found a new shape in their faces. “They will study,” she told herself. “They will not be me.”

So she worked three jobs. Took loans for tuition. Skipped meals. Shouted when they didn’t study. Hit them when they talked back. She was tough, because the world had never been gentle to her.

She believed: “If I had been beaten enough, maybe I wouldn’t have run away. Maybe I wouldn’t have suffered this much.”

Her girls were bright — not in studies, but in spirit. Beautiful. Curious. Innocent. And the world noticed.

Then one day, her elder daughter — just fourteen — ran away. Falling into the same cycle.

P.S. — This is not fiction. This is Bhubaneswar today. Hundreds of girls live this reality — child marriage, domestic violence, abandonment, poverty.

And what’s missing isn’t only food or money.
It’s safety. It’s care. Someone to see her. Believe in her.
It’s a world that believes girls are worth more than survival.

Until that changes, the story begins yet again.

Unmukt Foundation’s students at Unmukt Learning Centre, the organisation’s after-school program.

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